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		<title>Throwing Darts Sure Can Hurt You!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A young lady named Sally, relates an experience she had in a seminary class, given by her teacher. She says that Dr. Smith was known for his elaborate object lessons. One particular day, Sally walked into the seminary and knew they were in for a fun day. On the wall was a big target and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A young lady named Sally, relates an experience she had in a</p>
<p>seminary class, given by her teacher. She says that</p>
<p>Dr. Smith was known for his elaborate object lessons.</p>
<p>One particular day, Sally walked into the seminary and knew they</p>
<p>were in for a fun day. On the wall was a big target and on a nearby table were</p>
<p>many darts. Dr. Smith told the students to draw a picture of someone that</p>
<p>they disliked or someone who had made them angry, and he would allow</p>
<p>them to throw darts at the person’s picture.</p>
<p>Sally’s friend drew a picture of who had stolen her boyfriend.</p>
<p>Another friend drew a picture of his little brother. Sally drew a</p>
<p>picture of a  former friend, putting a great deal of detail into her</p>
<p>drawing, even drawing pimples on the face. Sally was pleased with the</p>
<p>overall effect she had achieved.</p>
<p>The class lined up and began throwing darts. Some of the</p>
<p>students threw their darts with such force that their targets were</p>
<p>ripping apart. Sally looked forward to her turn, and was filled with</p>
<p>disappointment when Dr. Smith, because of time limits, asked the</p>
<p>students to return to their seats. As Sally sat thinking about how angry</p>
<p>she was because she didn’t have a chance to throw any darts at her</p>
<p>target. Dr. Smith began removing the target from the wall.</p>
<p>Underneath the target was a picture of Jesus. A hush fell over</p>
<p>the room as each student viewed the mangled picture of Jesus; holes and</p>
<p>jagged marks covered His face and His eyes were pierced.</p>
<p>Dr. Smith said only these words…. ‘In as much as ye have done</p>
<p>it unto the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto Me.’</p>
<p>Matthew 25:40.</p>
<p>No other words were necessary; the tear filled eyes of the</p>
<p>students focused only on the picture of Christ.</p>
<p>**************************************************</p>
<p>It is very easy to let your entire focus be consumed by how someone  else has wronged you, or maybe even what they haven’t done that might  have been the right thing to do in a situation that concerned you.</p>
<p>Satan knows that if he can make you dwell on the shortcomings of  others, you won’t have much time to allow God to use you for furthering  His Kingdom Work.</p>
<p>At some point, other people may disappoint you in some way that you  might never understand their motive. It is certainly not in our fleshly  nature to naturally forgive someone who has wronged us, especially when  it was not something we feel we deserved.</p>
<p>Our natural fleshly self wants to dwell on it for hours or even days  or months. We don’t want to rest until we have had retribution in some  form, but God has a completely different way of doing things.</p>
<p>You must look at things from His perspective. He only desires the  very best for your life, and wants to use you in an awesome way to  further His Kingdom work. It is for this reason that God gave the Bible  to every Christian as an instruction book on how to be able to live the  best life possible.</p>
<p>Each Christian is responsible for making sure they follow the  guidelines set forth in the Bible. For example, God tells us very  clearly that we have no choice but to forgive others if we intend to  stay in fellowship with Him. Our flesh speaks very loudly that this  could never be the right thing to do because then the other person will  never have to pay for what they have done if we don’t make them.</p>
<p>But God comes back and tells us in His Word that a person will always  reap what they have sown. They will always pay in some way for what  they have done so God wants you to leave all that to Him and concentrate  on what He wants you to do.</p>
<p>Living in the flesh makes you a miserable person, but following God’s  plan will bring peace, joy, and fulfillment. I know it is hard to  believe that the act of forgiveness could cause such a drastic change in  your life, but you just have to try it to see the dramatic results.</p>
<p>If you are concentrated on God, you will start to see Him work in  ways that will astound you. It will be hard to believe what He can  accomplish through your life if you will let Him.</p>
<p>You can’t forgive on your own, but all you have to do is ask Him to  help you and truly mean what you say. God will take it from that point  on and you can truly be on the road to living a life of peace, joy, and  fulfillment no matter where you have been in the past.</p>
<p>Don’t throw darts any longer at the person who hurt you. Make the choice to forgive and let God handle the rest of the story…</p>
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